This s raging debate that is becoming more convoluted due to the "second car".
i feel the same way, the daily commute is brilliant with an auto, especially if you have paddles (I feel it is a must if you have an auto), but for the fun factor, manual is just so much better for me personally.
I have raced DCT's and have raced step-auto's, and with my manual box I can often outlaunch them and stay ahead.
Rolling runs, I found when I raced a DCT, that yes, the shifts are quicker but it made for null because in 4th gear I would start pulling away.
If you want a supremely quick car, auto is NEEDED, but I am talking 10seconds cars.
But nothing beats being able to miss a gear and lose a race because of you. Ha! Ha!