Ok so on Friday evening, I completed the fitment of the VXR turbo.
Before I did that, I had to make some minor mods to the front mount, as the downpipe was still touching on it when under partial load - very annoying. So in the pic below you can see I ground away some of the end of the mounting, and also flattened off the nut and bolt:
Then here's some pics of the LET turbo's oil and water lines fitted on the new VXR turbo:
New head studs fitted:
Turbo fitted, job complete:
Here's some pics underneath, you can see how little space there is between the downpipe and the mounting. That gap is approx. 4mm, after making some space for it
I started it on Saturday morning, all is running 100%. No leaks

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Then went for a brief drive this morning, everything feels good, the rattle from the downpipe also seems cured.
Special thanks to Allen & Danny for the tips and advice, and also Fox for his post with all the torque settings. This came in handy. Oh - and also thanks to Chris Hart on YouTube for the very useful step-by-step vid on how to do the swap.
Then lastly, I had a more detailed look at my original turbo - loosened the wastegate, and found a couple of small cracks behind the wastegate: