@Teezoh no I agree 💯 with you man, I complain about the funds because this car currently is just chowing money out my pocket, with what I’ve spent on buying and repairing I might as well have bought a 335i, but so is life, so I thought why not just build it, but I’ve realised that I’m going to need a second car to go ahead if I do this project, because I’m not just doing a straight engine swap, if I’m doing this I’m going to do it properly.
Here's my honest, no BS input.
If the car is costing you too much money to maintain, why are you holding onto it? The math is just not math'ing here.
A '20i should be a great daily, besides cosmetic upgrades maybe to make her look good, your maint cost should just be normal with a nice consistent fuel consumption.
As with many things in life, you need a balanced relationship. It can't be one sided. If you're throwing money at something, be it a car or a woman, and you're not happy you need to ask yourself why? Both of them can look great with cash going towards cosmetic upgrades but you can't expect a '20i to keep up with a 335i purely because you slapped a wing on it, they both have limits, much like a woman with a new rack not just turning into a p0rnstar. Both examples have common sense attached to it.
You need to know and understand the limits to things in life, what you put in is what you get out (and yes this applies to both examples).
If you do your part, maintain it, look after it, spend time with it. It should return the favour, if not just retrace the flow and see where things are not balancing.
Some of us settle for daily drivers, some of us settle for slightly boosted ones while others settle for mint competition packs, none of them are wrong by any means since none of us as humans are alike. All of us however have a need for happiness. It's up to you however to find yours.
I'm by no means a qualified councillor or match maker, but it's clear that you're not happy. Retrace the flow and figure out where it's coming from, if it's time to part ways just except it, don't fight it. You've spent 100k+ on her by now, don't let our next generation quote me in 10 years when you've done the turbo conversion and all the fancy bits you wanted but you're still not happy coz she's costing you xyz...
PS... Yes, I believe I triggered your hormones here
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