Hi all. Another update.
The motor was removed last Friday, and they were going to begin stripping the engine completely on the Saturday and would contact me with findings. So I've left them, and let them work uncovered.
I received a call today from Budler.
Here are the findings:
The Crank was sent off to engineering. And was successfully repaired and polished and even more so, still in spec to run standard sized bearings. So that us a saving grace and I do not need a new crank thankfully.
The oil pump when stripped showed signs of wear.

I was told the Oil Pump would still operate, however they highly recommended replacing it, so, I accepted it, rather safe than sorry.
The reasoning here, Boetie Budler told me that there is a chance that the initial error I got for the 164041: Exhaust Camshaft Installation Faulty. Could have arisen due to a slightly lower than normal oil pressure, not near enough to trigger a fault or error, but enough to not optimally actuate the vanos/camshaft, which only popped up when I cleared adaptations. His explanation does make sense. So I'm crossing fingers this may be the case.
I don't know much about the oil pump internals, and what constitutes as wear, whether extreme or light.
So maybe someone in the know can lend some thoughts after seeing the images.
Next, there is NO damage or wear on anything above the crankshaft.
The conrods are not damaged.
The pistons are clean and not damaged, no signs of detonation, or contact of any kind, also the piston skirts were clean of any scratches or wear.
The bores are clean and looked new
The heads were clean all over.
I was told the block itself is actually in incredible condition.
So apart from the Oil Pump and bearings, the motor is in great condition. And given the all clear to continue.
The cost... well that's hefty as shit, but, it's a necessity, and is required, it's a bitter pill to swallow, however, I'd rather have this now, than the alternative where I could of been driving to Cape Town in December, or in the course if the year have the engine seize completely. So this is undeniably a silver lining I will take...
The time needed is 3 to 4 weeks for the rebuild, thats a long time you all thinking, and I agree. But the reason is due to Boetie and Shaun (head mechanic), only working on the after hours and weekends, and they do this work themselves personally due to the type of csr, and the complexity of the work. No other shop staff. Which I like, and will gladly take the time.
So I have given the final go ahead, and will get things started. So now it's just the waiting game. And hoping for end of Feb.
So will keep you all update as things progress.