OK.. so I was wrong, my paint is a weird hybrid .. not a standard .. which is why it now makes sense that my car and ubers 520's paint looks different..
mine is Orient blau (dunkel blau) writton on the body tag. not just Orient Blau.. which is why I THOUGHT it was nacht blau..
SO. after seeing these pictures, now knowing how good my car will look with its current paint and the wheels I want. I think the decision is made
My mind is made up 90% on keeping it this colour and just getting a professional respray.
White is still a possibility..

but its a long shot now ..