peanut125i said:
Car guards honestly are more annoying than window washers. It's also very rarely that I will have cash on me, I don't even carry a wallet just a card holder so have nothing to give them. I remember when the car guards first started out they would ask if you needed your car looked after, though now it seems they automatically asume. As for window washers, last time I stopped I opened my window and told the guy I have no cash and he accepted and thanked me for telling him. So I guess it depends on the person and how they are treated. I'm generally quick to anger, but recently I have tried to keep that side of myself under wraps. Sometimes I can't manage but I'm hoping that going forward I will get better at dealing with my own issues an don't taking it out on others.
I have a similar experience. I only disagree with the part where it depends on how they are treated. They all get treated like decent human beings but how they choose to respond to me not giving them what they want differs. I think it depends on who you find on the day at that intersection or mall. I drove with my roof off for many years with minimal trouble. Yes it can get annoying but I never felt unsafe. You can have a chat with the vendors, washers etc and it was a generally positive experience for me. I had one incident where a washer at Grayston reached into my car but fortunately it was as I drove off and nothing really happened to myself or my car. Even now, there are still many guys who DO take no for an answer or choose to have a small chat (still aware of my surroundings). However the change I'm talking about is that many go from "oh please take pity on me and give me money" to "F-you, I'll kill you. <show fist, make gun with hand, bang on window etc>" regardless of what you do or say. These are simply criminals in disguise.
FastCarFan said:
Try driving around in a convertible with the roof down these days in the bigger cities. You are harassed endlessly at every traffic light.
Just end up putting the roof up for some peace and safety.
It used to be fine but nowadays it is constant harassment whether you have a car with a roof or not.
Major said:
Can't help but notice you're all from Gauteng
I've seen the same in Durban in a slightly funnier way. I'm Indian and if there is an Indian beggar they seem to be even more aggressive and start telling me I've forgotten where I've come from LOL :hammerhead: