So after 5 months BMW phoned me yesterday & told me they finally got the problem. 5 months down the road. It was a 5 cent that fell in somewhere around the gear selector & caused a short on the gearbox control unit.
Sigh, a few R1000 bucks down the road, but I guess someone has a plan with everything. I haven't had a day's issues with the Audi, I still have a year under motorplan & 25k to drive. In the short while I had the car they replaced the whole carpet (not the small ones) because of a small tear in front of the front passenger seat. I'm receiving exceptional service from Audi & I don't worry about anything that might break in the near future.
In short, the A3 is'nt as aggressive as the 330i, but I don't have any headaches of kak service. Sovereign BMW can only improve & I really hope they do, because in three years I'll be replacing A3 (or my ladies' Micra) & I'd love to get either the 3l straight six I wanted from the beginning or I'll get the 2.0t Audi.